I was looking for the right word to describe a feeling today. Soothe, calm, comfort, quiet?
These verbs were close, but not quite right. Thinking about how I wanted to describe what I was trying to express, I decided on ‘ease.’
What was I trying to describe? The effect my dear friend has on me.
I am a low-key person. I am not easily offended. I am calm most of the time…. but there can be an inner stress, an inner anxiousness or unsettled-ness inside. It isn’t fear or panic; it doesn’t control my day to day function – it is more of a background noise in my brain. My dear friend has a manner that eases that background noise.
Now, my friend is not always calm, and is rarely quiet. Yet somehow my friend’s voice and presence eases my stress. Now that I’ve identified the word to describe it, I wish I could identify why that is so.